Sometimes, it realy doesn't pay to be nice...

At first, I thought that helping him would not be as difficult as many people think.

I was wrong, very wrong after what I had witnessed today...

Instead of changing for the greater good, he was exactly how he was like last time.

Always pushing the blame on court, still throwing his tantrum around, commenting on people's skill as if he was the coach. He did not even THINK before he say, just splashing comments about people's skills, without even considering whether it will actually demoralise him or whether it was actually his own style of playing.

He thinks he is the best, he thinks he know everything, he thinks he have the right to comment on people's ability, without even considering whether that comment was needed.

Maybe he was trying to help, but I think many people would not like the way he phrase his words, " You cannot control like 'tat'... You need to do 'this' instead, train 'this' one better , the one you are doing now is useless de, don't waste time to learn 'tat' la..."

" Not like 'tat' shoot one, you want to shoot must shoot like 'this', don't try copy people's slapshot la, everybody have different style."

Who do he think he is, what give him the god damn right to actually comment on people's ability?

He will never consider whether his comment is even needed in the 1st place. When people tell him off for blasting his comments, he will just throw tantrum and say, "I trying to help only ma..."

Help? No thanks....

And anything mistakes on court would never be his, NEVER. He will be the very 1st one to push all the blame away. If you tell him off, he would, once again, throw his tantrum and act as if you were at fault.

On court, he will always tell you exactly to do, and will scream at you once you commit a mistake. As if he never committed mistakes before...

With any chances at goal, he will shoot or even shoot without any chances at goal. When there is a free-hit, he would be 1st to go there and take it with his 'slapshot' , when it was actually better to lay off the ball.

He is too selfish and too demanding on court. When he pass, he will pass those highballs into those very difficult to reach places and expect you to get it. If you don't, he will just 'sigh' and look as if it was your inability to get the ball.

And if his role was to play forward, he would adjust to play in the middle, where he is more comfortable at and make Darius play as forward. Can't he just stick to the plan!!!

If you miss a shot where you can actually pass to him, he will give you a lot of bullshit and tell you off. Selfish? Wonder who is more selfish on court...


I thought I could change him. I was wrong. Maybe, it is really difficult or even impossible to change one's personality.

All my time and effort trying to change him is all wasted. He didn't even change a little bit.

Maybe Eugene and Crenshawn were right, he is hopeless.

From now on, NONE of his business shall concern me again. I give up. It really doesn't pay to be nice.

Next time, when he come and bother me, I would just say, " FUCK OFF! "