Yahoo~

Just realised YAHOO~ is actually a sound you will make when you are feeling 'high', not just some ordinary search engine...

Okay back to the topic, just came back from the badminton session. Although not many people came but it was incredibly fun. Didn't want to play badminton at first (partially cose I can't play it well), but still, it would seemed to be a pity if I didn't...

Okay, so lunch was at 1 at Wendy's at Northpoint. Took bus there. Had a pretty decent meal and bought SNSD ez-link card sticker for my stick. LOL. Planning to paste it on my stick=)

Took bus to Khatib CC. Waited a while and soon it was 2.30. Didn't even bring my racket, my sister took it to her hostel. Not planning to play at all but couldn't resist the temptation of sports~

So nice of my primary school friend, Zheng Wei, to bring an extra racket for me. Started off playing on the stage with his sister, Shi Ni. Was like getting thrashed even though she gave me those nice nice balls ( w8, or should I say nice nice shuttlecocks...). Then she taught me some very basic skill and I'm ready! Went on court...

Haha, only managed to return the balls. Can't smash or control the direction, was plainly keeping it in play... lol, the rest of my friends were like all damn zai... Can't they play floorball or something=) Something I'm good at?

Went on playing and got slightly better. Thanks to all those that taught me how to play badminton, and screw those that kept making me pick up the shuttlecock.

Was not planning to play initially but ended up playing the most in the end=) Improved quite a bit within an hour plus. By the end, I was like on par with Shi Ni (I hope...), when she was like owning me at the start. Maybe I'm just good in sports=)

Went to the card shop too. Had not been there for 3 or more years already... The smell of the place seemed so familiar. Really missed those times in primary school where the few of us rush to this card shop right after school to buy cards. I must have spend close to 300+ on cards...

Time to make my way to my aunt's house for dinner. Gosh, badminton is now making my hand tremble, my hand is shaking as I'm typing...

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"It's tiring to bear grudges..."

Learn to forgive and forget.

Everybody makes mistakes, so do you. Give the person a chance. Forgive him whether it was on purpose or not, allow him to repent.

It's easier to get along well with a person rather to to bear grudges against him. If you do, you have to deliberately ignore him and even have to avoid him at times. How bother to bear grudges then? Let whatever that happened go...

I can't really 'hate' anybody regardless of what he have done to me. People have hurt me deeply before but I just forgive and forget. Some hurt me so badly that I can ignore him totally for a month or so if I make up my mind to do so. But why bother to make him feel so sad and why bother to deliberately ignore him? Forgive him, even he was at fault. Forgive him, so that he wouldn't feel so sad. Forgive him, be generous.

People can hurt me so deeply till they don't know it cose I don't show it. He can hurt me so deeply that I almost cried but when he apologises on the phone an hour later, I forgive him even though I'm still heartbroken.

We all have feelings, we are all humans. Don't always think about yourself all the time. Think from other's people persepective as well. Put yourself in people's shoe. That's my theory in life.

If you make up your mind to 'hate' somebody, you will never be able to let go of this grudge but if you decide to forgive him, you will realise that he ain't such a bad person afterall.

You can 'hate' him, everything you see about him is bad. If you forgive him, you will see that everything about him ain't that bad afterall. That's life!

Forgive and forget!