Selfishness

* Seem like there is some misconception. This post is not to hate, maybe the tone is a bit harsh but ultimately i want to help. Hatred is never in my dictionary, I always forgive. But I really hope to help this friend of mine.

I have never seen anybody as selfish as you..

Yes, it's you.

Such a simple request and yet you rejected me right away. If it was anybody else, they would probably have given it to me straight away. If they did, I would probably consider not eating it since I would feel bad cose they are so nice to me. But you? You immediately said no and even if I asked a few more times, your stand is firm. 'No, that is my food, you want it go get it yourself.' If it was anybody else, if I asked for a few times they would have given it to me.

Then when you realised that I was pissed and you would probably lose this friend of yours, you then tried to redeem the situation and offered it to me. You offered the food to me at the end because you knew that you are going to offend me and that will cause me to dao you or something and you did not want that to happen that's why you decided to offer me the food.

It is through little actions that people notice good or bad things about a person. You probably did whatever you did in the past because you realise that you are in a disadvantage if you were to offend anybody and that will put you in a spot.

Some actions of yours shows your character. In fact, too many. It is just that people do not mind or bother but whatever you did during this incident really pissed me off.

Firstly, look around you. Can you name me a friend whom you can truly say is your best friend? Friends share and are willing to give without gain. But given your character, tell me, how many best friends you have now and in the past?

Secondly, you always put yourself first when it comes to any situation. Of course, all humans are self-centered but not to your extent. You do everything for your own benefit. Never once you shown me that you actually do stuff for other people without hoping for anything in return. Every action of yours has it agenda, you know it yourself.

Thirdly, you don't put yourself in people's shoes when you act or speak. If you do, then you would probably be able to not be so self-centered. Think about how others might feel when you do something or say something.

The world does not revolve around you, treat the people with a different attitude from now on, putting yourself in their shoes, treat the people around you unselfishly. You would find that you would soon have much more friends and closer friends than now.

All the best